How do I meet other Moms?

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LMASON
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I've been stationed here in Heidelberg Germany for 6 months and have only met one friend.  And she's leaving for the states next month.  How do I meet other moms?

luisastripes
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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

Hi! I feel your pain... I got sent with my family to Atsugi (Japan) and it was a pretty lonely experience in the beginning...

In my opinion, the best way to meet people is to get involved with activities on base, whether working, volunteering or just participating. Volunteering is a favorite of mine; when my child was younger that's what I did. It's a great way to meet people, get involved in a cause you care about, learn about the military and the community, plus beefing up your resume a bit, since volunteering experience counts as working experience... Back in the day, some organizations on base helped pay for childcare expenses -I don't know if you have a small child.

When I was in the Navy environment I volunteered for the Navy Marine Corps Relief Society (or Navy Relief for short), I believe the Army's version is called "Soldier & Family Assistance Center," and here is a link for them: http://www.aerhq.org/section_locations.asp?a=3, it seems they have an office for Heidelberg.

Here is a link for the "Army Volunteer Corps," it may help to check it out? http://www.mwrgermany.com/HD/acs/avc.htm

Other suggestions, take some classes, if budget and time allows? http://www.mwrgermany.com/hd/contentimages/Jun_09/HD%20ACS%20Community%20Calendar%20Apr%20-%20Jun%2009.pdf

Perhaps other military spouses would like to share their ideas?

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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

i live in katterbach,germany. get back to me and we can chat.

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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

i am going to stuggart and would lovbe any info on childcare moms groups there ect:)

mel

mom of david 10mo and ava 2yrs

lopadill
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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

Im in Mannheim and on the same boat as you. I have an 11 year old daughter. How about you? I have not made any friends. Im not really sure where to look or go.

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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

I just moved to Stuttgart on Patch and have a 6 yr old girl and 4yr old boy. I don't know anyone yet and the kids love to play at the park. Hope to meet some other moms out there in the same boat as me. I don't know the area yet so I don't know where else to go. Would love any suggestions and some adult "talk".

lauriehammie
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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

I am also new in Germany and I haven't quite met any friends. I go to the park to try and meet people but I am not having really good luck at that. I have a 4year old who will be starting school in August so I was trying to wait untill then to go back to work and to voulnteer.

MParmywife15
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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

I am new to Heidleberg also. You can chat with me and maybe we can get together or something. Have you been out exploring any at all yet?  Which place do you live at?  We are at MTV ourselves.I am dying to go back to Ikea of course I already found a million things I really want to get but will settle for the things I can carry myself since shopping really isn't my hubby's thing. LOL

damc827
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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

I think many of us are in the same boat which is why alot of us are here Im sure. That is exactly what I am here for. I am in Ktown and would love to set up something for people to get to know eachother as well as have a play day for the kids. I justed started a new forum and just waiting for responces and see how it goes hopefully I will be able to get something set up. If it works I will let you know and perhaps others can do the same thing.

prinCessXtina
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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

Is there anyone from Mannheim here? We should set up something in Mannheim for everyone that wants to make friends...

SylvieB
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Re: How do I meet other Moms?

 i know the feeling. we live in wiesbaden and i don't really know anyone here. and it doesn't really help that im working full-time off-post and am the only one at work with a lil one...